Every shadowy chapter of my life has been granted serenity. I am so grateful that I obtained courage to just turn the page. The wisdom I've inherited because of it is a blessing.
Maturity is accepting that not everyone wants or needs you...If ever people seek no ties to you, thank them for advanced notice, rather than an extended timeline of devastation, and avoid resentment. Keep working on you so that when THAT man enters your life, you will be far from broken due to your past and ACTUALLY repaired & prepared to be his wife.
With some exes, you just need to remove all methods of contact. If you're repeatedly checking up on your ex, you might not be as over it as you once thought. You'll know you've healed when you have absolutely no clue what they are up to but you're actually okay with that.